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Understanding and using Body Language
No matter how one views this it simply cannot be ignored. Up to 78% of all communication is non verbal, and key in understanding this is the use of body language. In fact if it was presented as a subject alongside history or math in school it may lead to better understanding and communication on so many levels.
Since time immemorial people have been communicating on a subtle level along with using body language. It is universal in its approach so let’s get to it.
How often have you been in conversation with someone and a few things do not add up. They agree with everything you say yet you sense they either do not understand or hold an opposing view but prefer keeping it to themselves? Typical indicators shaking the head from left to right while agreeing with a statement verbally.
The one seen so very often of people not making eye contact .Evasive? or a sign of respect?
How about dealing with the eager salesman that smiles and vigorously rubs his hands together? The most often used is when people cross there arms in conversation. Either holding back or defending themselves?
It’s all in the hand gesture or in the eyes.
What’s even more amazing about body language is its use. You can use body language to see if someone you’re attracted to is attracted to you too. In many cases, especially at job interviews, potential employers can analyze your body language to see if you’re confident in yourself. At the risk of sounding cliché, everyone everywhere uses body language to show their true feelings. Once you learn what to look for, actions can literally speak louder than words.
First impressions and confidence
Recall a time when you met someone new at work. Or think about the last time you watched a speaker deliver a presentation.
What were your first impressions? Did you sense confidence or a lack of confidence in them? Did you want to associate with them or not? Were you convinced by them?
Did they stride into the room, engage you and maintain eye contact or were they tentative, shuffling towards you with eyes averted, before sliding into a chair? What about their handshake – firm and strong or weak and limp?
Moving along in the conversation, did they maintain solid eye contact or were they frequently looking away? Did their face appear relaxed or was it tight and tense? What about their hand and arm movements? Were their gestures wide, flowing and open or were they tight, jerky and closed?
As you observe others, you can identify some common signs and signals that give away whether they are feeling confident or not. Typical things to look for in confident people include:
Posture – standing tall with shoulders back.
Eye contact – solid with a “smiling” face.
Gestures with hands and arms – purposeful and deliberate.
Speech – slow and clear.
Tone of voice – moderate to low.
As well as deciphering other people’s body language, you can use this knowledge to convey feelings that you’re not actually experiencing.
For example, if you are about to enter into a situation where you are not as confident as you’d like to be, such as giving a big presentation or attending an important meeting, you can adopt these ‘confidence’ signs and signals to project confidence.
Difficult meetings and defensiveness
Think of a time when you were in a difficult meeting – perhaps a performance appraisal or one where you are negotiating deadlines, responsibilities or a contract. In an ideal world, both you and the other person would be open and receptive to hearing what each other has to say, in order to conclude the meeting successfully.
However, often, the other person is defensive and doesn’t really listen. If this happens during an appraisal meeting, and it’s important for you to convey to your colleague that he or she needs to change certain behaviors, you really want them open and receptive to you so they take on board what you are saying.
So how can you tell whether your message is falling on “deaf ears”?
Some of the common signs that the person you are speaking with may be feeling defensive include:
-Hand/arm gestures are small and close to his or her body.
-Facial expressions are minimal.
-Body is physically turned away from you.
-Arms are crossed in front of body.
-Eyes maintain little contact, or are downcast.
By picking up these signs, you can change what you say or how you say it to help the other person become more at ease, and more receptive to what you are saying.
Equally, if you are feeling somewhat defensive going into a negotiating situation, you can monitor your own body language to ensure that the messages you are conveying are ones that say that you are open and receptive to what is being discussed.
Working with groups and disengagement
Have you ever delivered a presentation, and had a sense that people weren’t really buying into what you had to say? What about working with a group to facilitate a consensus on responsibilities and deadlines? Was everyone on board with the ideas, or did some appear disengaged?
Ideally, when you stand up to deliver a presentation or work with group, you want 100 percent engagement with all concerned. This often doesn’t happen on its own, though. But you can actively engage the audience when you need to if you’re alert to some of the typical signs and signals of people not being engaged. Some of these signs and signals include:
-Heads are down.
-Eyes are glazed, or gazing at something else.
-Hands may be picking at clothes, or fiddling with pens.
-People may be writing or doodling.
-They may be sitting slumped in their chairs.
When you pick up that someone appears not to be engaged in what is going on, you can do something to re-engage him or her and bring their focus back to what you are saying, such as asking them a direct question.
And while this is going on, make sure that your own body language is saying what you want it to.
Of all the non-verbal body language that we may observe, being able to tell whether a person is lying or not will stand you in good stead.
Some of the typical signs and signals that a person is lying include:
-Eyes maintain little or no eye contact, or there may be rapid eye movements, with pupils constricted.
-Hand or fingers are in front of his or her mouth when speaking.
-His or her body is physically turned away from you, or there are unusual/un-natural body gestures.
-His or her breathing rate increases.
-Complexion changes such as in color; red in face or neck area.
-Voice changes such as change in pitch, stammering, throat clearing.
As with all non-verbal language, it’s important to remember here that everyone’s personal body language is slightly different. If you notice some of the typical non-verbal signs of lying, you shouldn’t necessarily jump to conclusions, as many of these signals can be confused with the appearance of nervousness. What you should do, however, is use these signals as a prompt to probe further, ask more questions and explore the area in more detail to determine whether they are being truthful or not.
Further clarification is always worthwhile when checking out your understanding of someone’s body language, and this is particularly true during job interviews and in negotiating situations.
Interviews and negotiations, and reflection
What do you do when you are asked a really good question? Do you ponder for a few moments before answering?
You might simply blurt something out without taking time to think about the answer, or you could take a moment to reflect before answering. By taking some time to reflect on your response, you are indicating to the questioner that they’ve asked you a good question and it is important enough for you to take some time to consider your answer.
Be that in an interview situation or when negotiating something with someone, showing that you are indeed thinking over your answer is a positive thing. Some typical signs and signals that a person is reflecting on their answer include:
-Eyes look away and return to engage contact only when answering.
-Finger stroking on chin.
-Hand to cheek.
-Head tilted with eyes looking up
So, whether you are on the receiving end of someone pondering, or you are doing the pondering, there are certain gestures that give it away.
One size does NOT fit all
Each person is unique, and their signs and signals might have a different underlying cause from the ones you suspect. This is often the case when people have different past experiences, and particularly where cultural differences are large. This is why it’s important to check that your interpretation of someone else’s body language is correct. You might do this through the use of further questions, or simply by getting to know the person better.
To help practice and further develop your skill in picking up body language, engage in people-watching. Observe people – be that on a bus/train or on television without the sound – and just notice how they act and react to each other. When you watch others, try to guess what they are saying or get a sense of what is going on between them.
Even if you do not get the chance to check whether you are correct in your assessment, you will be developing your observational skills. This in turn can help you to pick up signals when you are interacting with others.
Energy Vampires in your life and working environment
How many times have you been in the company of someone who leaves you very drained after interacting with them? Nothing they say or do seems to be untoward, however they suck all your energy out.
If this has happened to you it may be that you were the victim of an energy vampire.
Energy vampires are all over and unfortunately you cannot avoid them. Whatever form they take, energy vampires have one thing in common: They cannot create or sustain their own life force in any positive manner. So they latch on and feed off on others, slowly sucking the life out of them.
In extreme cases they sometimes adopt the character of the victim, and this is often very prevalent in relationships.
It is sometimes easier than other times to recognize a vampire as very often they are the shy withdrawn pale types.Especially if they haven’t had a good feed recently. Other types can be extremely overbearing when fed and will seem to drain the energy right out of the room.
You are the guardian of your own energetic space. And to live a healthy, happy, and positive life, it is absolutely vital that you surround yourself with people who promote the same way of living.
During the last few years, it horrified and surprised me how affected many of my clients were by energy vampires. It became apparent that I’d need to assist safeguard the physical, emotional, and mental energy from victims. And the same goes for you.
There are a few steps one can take to deal with the vampire:
Do not allow their words or actions to linger and crowd your heart space and mind Take a deep breath and let it go.
Keep things light and change the focus. Learn not to react on impulse; instead, go with the flow, and tactfully bring the situation back to neutral ground.
Do not allow them space to get their fangs in keep a good distance energetically.
Recognize when their words or actions are unacceptable. Don’t give them permission to leech your energy.
Adopt a stand-off approach at all times even protecting yourself by crossing your arms in their company.
Subconsciously project to them that they are not welcome to share or feed off your energy.
Do you know what high percentage of general communication is non verbal?
“Dr. Albert Mehrabian, author of “Silent Messages”, conducted several studies on nonverbal communication. He found that 7% of any message is conveyed through words, 38% through certain vocal elements, and 55% through nonverbal elements (facial expressions, gestures, posture, etc). Subtracting the 7% for actual vocal content leaves one with the 93% statistic.”
This brings me to the next interesting part, and that is about body language.I will be writing and sharing on this soon. So kindly follow the blog for some interesting facts you won’t find elsewhere on topics of interest relating to the human mind and potential.
REVIEW ON THE COMPLETE REMOTE INFLUENCING AND TRAINING SYSTEM
This week the focus is on programs that have worked for me these past few years.This is to acknowledge the writers and programmers in the fantastic contribution they are making to humanity.Very often these individuals receive bad press from people that simply do not have any understanding of certain technology.Instead of investing or at least investigating these programs they bash it to bits.
As the internet is actually a small space these negative comments remain forever and do much damage.
Each program I will mention on here has been investigated and utilised by myself.I am a sceptic so will not put my name or recommendation to something I do not believe in or go by secondhand information.
I aim to give a factual write up of all these courses.
The first program is a program that holds a very special place for me.This program is by Gerald O’Donnell from ARVARI has two parts.
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My personal experience with this program has been profound.The changes to awareness on many levels has increased in leaps and bounds.
The term Remote Viewing is a bit of a misnomer as you don’t actually get to look into someones house or personal space.In my personal experience I have found that the power of manifestation and the power of communication with and through natural sources becomes second nature after using the course material for awhile.As with any program that actually holds the potential for success it is recommended to complete the course and do it over and over till it really sinks in.
Unfortunately many people myself included go the long way and the wrong way before discovering a true gem as in the work of Gerald O’Donnell.
There is just something about Geralds voice I cannot explain.Just listen to a few clips before committing.Some can be found here by signing up for free at http://arvari.com/
Do not expect miracles at first.Dedication is needed.After committing and completing the course a few times at first subtle changes are noticed in perception.Over a period of time I have been doing it for 12 months now at least a few times a week a wonderful and profound change in perception happens.
My concentration levels have increased in leaps and bounds.
The ability to enter different states of consciousness is really possible.
I have developed the strange ability to read people on many levels.
I have developed a sense of deja vu or a knowing of events to happen as they transpire.
My sleeping pattern has become calm and the dreams I experience are almost psychedelic at times.
My awareness to subtle energy systems has increased dramatically.
No I have not won the lotto or anything else crazy many other courses promise.
I have become far more aware of health issues and seem to understand my mind and body better.I indeed look forward to any future programs Gerald may release,however this program is so complete.I fail to see how it can be improved in standard or content as it is complete on all levels as presented.Kindly take some time to visit click here for more